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"You'll never feel like it"

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 Some days have really passed since my last blog. I was waiting for the "I now feel like writing feeling", obviously it was not forthcoming. The truth is the difficult things are the most valuable but we don't like doing them. It may be waking up without hitting the snooze alarm,going to the gym or even reading a book. The mind is designed to protect us thus when doing a difficult thing it magnifies the problem thus the many excuses we tell ourselves. Many achievers have told us that in order to succeed we must control our mind ,I am fascinated by Eliud Kipchoge(one of the greatest marathon runners) who always says that "if you don't rule your mind it will rule you". So we must learn to control our mind.  When the mind tries to trick you ,there are metacognition techniques(metacognition is the ability to control your mind)that you can use. I strongly advocate for the '5 second rule' by Mel Robbins .It basically states they if you don't feel like ...
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If it's worth it, you should do it.

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 So in high school ,we had amateur football matches;amateur meaning just for fun. There was team A and team B. I personally was not a good player so I was in Team B( a team not known for its football exploits).I was a substitute in team B. Minutes after the game started our team had been scored against two times and the goalkeeper was in an emotional wreck. He could not take it anymore. I thought of myself as a striker but guys called upon me to be the goalkeeper. It was going well ,I had saved a few weak shots. I started gaining confidence ,I told my defenders to go into midfield to help us score. Suddenly, a midfielder of team A hit the ball in front so that the striker could catch up to it.The striker was a huge guy known for bullying. As he caught up to the ball ,thought flooded my mind. Do I have medical insurance cover?Was it worth it? Boom! He shot the ball. I stretched my arms so that it could seem I was trying. In my head I prayed it could miss me even if it was a goal ,I ...
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Introduction;

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    Welcome to my blog .I am going to take you through the life lessons that I have been taught by the world .Africans have a saying that if you are not taught by your parents the world teaches you .There are a lot I have learned from Mother Earth, forgive the analogy .Not to say that my parents failed but you can only teach what you know .So allow me to take you through a journey that has brought me to the height of my career and a successful life .All of my content is my own opinion ,so I cannot be held accountable for what you decide to do with the information I give .The blog will consist of a series of episodes which are based on a number of topics .Walk with me as I take you through one of the greatest journeys of your life.
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